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Testimonials
These are REAL testimonials taken from Lifestyle Lounge - Club Page or Bay Couples - Clubs & Events page

Lifestyle Lounge
Decadence parties are by far the classiest on premise parties in the SF Bay Area. K & J are the most gracious hosts with exquisite attention to detail and have consistently made us feel welcome at each party. Each one has been a truly sensual adventure for us. In addition to the wonderful hosts and setting, we have really appreciated the caliber of guests that Decadence draws...both genuine and sexy. Very hot! We look forward to many more!
SENSUALFUN - SAN RAMON, CA

This is really the perfect party and they are the perfect party hosts. As a single female, it is important to me that I feel comfortable and safe at all times, and that someone is watching out for me and caring for my needs. Luckily there are always wonderful and fun play partners at Decadence Parties, but I can always tell that at this party, they go the extra mile for every detail. Every event is something special indeed.
As hosts, they make sure all the newbies and veterans alike are introduced around, and that you are having an experience that is fun, memorable and right for all involved. I have been to many parties with them now and have come to realize it is the consistently high standards they set, that make this the best party in the East Bay.
I highly recommend it to any single woman that is considering going to a party, and I will be glad to talk to anyone and answer any questions you may have.
CALIFORNIASTARS - PLEASANTON, CA

Being warmly greeted as you are welcomed into a romantically lit penthouse suite with glowing candles everywhere and twinkling city lights shining through panoramic windows is breath stopping enough; adding in a large group of attractive, friendly and genuinely interesting people, a generously stocked array of refreshments and two amazingly creative and attentive hosts, and you have the makings of an unforgettable evening. In other words, Kevin and Jackie throw a hell of a party. We will definitely be back for more!
FUNBYTHEBAY - MONTE SERENO, CA

I had never been to this type of lifestyle party, and I was totally seduced by the atmosphere, the electic excitement that intoxicated me, and every single smile that responded to mine. I met, and met again, some of the most luscious people on LL. What a great party. These are hosts that I adore. And I hope I get a chance to show them my appreciation...
TXSTARFISH - SAUSALITO, CA

J & K do a fabulous job with the Decadence Party. The locations are swanky and sexy and the atmosphere is romantic and easy going. The vibe is like a classy cocktail party that is conducive to meeting and flirting with attractive, respectful and FUN-loving couples. J & K do a great job of putting together a wonderful event. You won't be disappointed.
AGENT 99 - PIEDMONT,CA

There is a reason why all these reviews are 5 stars...there isn't a choice for 10 stars! You won't find a better venue than a Decadence Party. We have tried to attain to the level of class and sophistication of a Decadence Party in our own parties, but we have some very lofty goals to achieve. From the moment you walk in, until you wobble out...you will experience a Lifestyle party like no other. Take our recommendation...and the recommendation of every other reviewer on this site...
YOU GOTTA TRY A DECADENCE PARTY!
BAYAREANEWBIES - FREMONT, CA

Kevin and Jackie are the most attentive hosts we have experienced in the lifestyle. All guests are treated as if they are best of friends. The locations are well chosen and prepared down to the last detail. If you want to attend a party where you will be welcomed and "spoilt", Decadence is the only choice. All the guests are approachable and friendly making the parties comfortable, fun and personal.
REGNIG - CARMEL,CA

This was our first time with J and K, and the one thing we can say is they really know how to put on a party. It's high class without being stuffy. Plenty of opportunity to play, but never pushy. They only invite sexy, respectful, fun people. We'll just keep coming back and coming back. Once you've been to a Decadence party, you won't want, nor need, to go to any others.
DENANDSARA - SAN FRANCISCO, CA

Bay Couples
Fun vertically and horizontally
These are the classiest... yet, most down to earth parties we have attended. The atmosphere and setting are so conducive to meeting and getting to know all the guests in both vertical and horizontal positions. The hosts and people are very friendly, respectful and fun. My partner and I always leave with huge smiles on our faces that last for days because we meet fabulous people at Decadence parties. Each party has a different 'vibe' so there are always new people to discover and new sensual experiences for us. We love Decadence parties! The Best of the Best This is the party to go to! Everyone was so nice and the guests were so welcoming - how could we not have a good time! Seemed like forever until play actualy started. We will be back. It was a very erotic and enjoyable evening. Thanks so much J & K for making it a one-of-a-kind and definitely returning experience.

This is the Party to go to!!

We love this party! We have attended many times and hope to attend many more. Classy from start to finish. The hosts are not only attentive to the guests but also to every little detail. They have earned that 5 star rating and you get to enjoy it!

This is the Best Party we have ever attended!!!

We have attended parties all over the country from Seattle to New York and this is by far the best party! The hosts are very cordial and make an environment that makes you feel warm and welcome. The attendees are sexy and fun we had no trouble finding couples that we “clicked” with. The venue is great romantic and sexy. The right blend of lighting music and padded horizontal surfaces. Can’t wait for the next event!!

Bay Area's BEST Party!!!

Decadence is by far the best party we have been to in the Bay Area. It has the right mix of people, atmosphere and eroticism. We have been to many clubs and house parties and this one is the one to attend. We tend not to get too “involved” at public venues but at Decadence you can’t help yourself. Not only are the host inviting so are the guests! The hosts take special care to interview couples in advance and this bit of extra care is well worth it. They have assembled a great group. Hope to see you there!

MORE THAN WE EXPECTED

We've been to clubs (too loud, too dark) and house parties (too cliquish, not friendly). What a welcome surprise Decadence was. Although it is a house party held in a private suite, the ambiance is warm and welcoming and very comfortable. There are just enough couples to make it a great party but not so many people that you can't move around or there isn't enough room to play! We met a few couples we will definitely hook up with again. Can't wait for their next event. The hosts are super nice people and go out of their way to make sure first time guests are having a good time. Decadence is a diamond in the rough - not to be missed, what a treasure!

HOW COULD YOU NOT KNOW ABOUT DECADENCE?

First, the ambiance the hosts create is warm, seductive, sexy and welcoming. The suite is gorgeous, well layed out, the refreshments and goodies are great. The crowd is upscale, professional, friendly and warm. Although it was our first time at Decadence, it didn't take long for us to feel a part of the group. We had a great time and have told other couples about it. Whether you play or not, it's a great venue in which to meet couples. Can't wait for the next invite. Should you be lucky to be on their guest list, make every effort to attend. You will definitely not be disappointed.

WHAT A SURPRISE!!!!!

This was our first time attending a private party. We heard really nice things about Decadence but since they came from couples more experienced than we were, we didn't know what to expect. It was nicer, more comfortable and more friendly than we could have ever imagined. Kevin and Jackie go out of their way to make everyone feel so welcomed and they take the time to personally introduce newbies (such as ourselves) to everyone there. Even though we didn't participate in the play activities, we didn't feel like outsiders and there was never any pressure to play. We will definitely be back for their next party and may feel alittle more adventurous next time. Thank you for a wonderful experience!

Totally Excellent

We have attended several parties that J&K have organized and can only say that they do an excellent job. The people are friendly, generally open and warm and treat you as friends. Plus there is no pressure on you to do what you don't want to do. Overall a great experience and we will go back for more!

What are you waiting for???????

The Decadence Parties are the best! We've been to clubs and other private parties and nothing compares to Decadence. The guests are very friendly and down to earth! The hosts are unbeatable in terms of making first timers feel welcome and part of the group. No cliques here, that's for sure! It seemed like forever before play started and then time seemed to go by much too fast! From the time you walk through the doors till the time you leave, you will have a fantastic experience. Look forward to us attending again soon. Thanks to our wonderful hosts - you won't find any better!

The Best of the BEST

Look no more! We attended our first Decadence Party this past weekend and it was A-W-E-S-O-M-E! A very upscale, classy, friendly and down to earth group of guests! As newbies, we instantly felt welcomed and were introduced to everyone there! The venue is gorgeous and we definitely will be back! The hosts are unbeatable and we met couples we are certain to hook up with in the near future. Don't waste your time with other private parties, Decadence is the ONLY place you want to be at! Thanks so much K & J for such a terrific evening!

Stop looking you have found it!!!

We have been to most the Bay Area Parties (too many to list) and this is it!!! The hosts are warm and welcoming. The environment is sexy and seductive. The guests are classy and charismatic. We felt like we were returning to an old friend's home yet it was our first time attending. If you haven't been yet what are you waiting for!

Warm and Welcoming Hosts & Classy Venue

We were thrilled to join the inaugural Decadence Party! Mrs. Host is a professional event planner by day, so she has all the details nailed: great mix of people, sensuous, candle-lit atmosphere, stellar location, nice nibbles - and even a door prize and party favors. We look forward to attending another of their classy events soon! Ping us for more salacious details... -"FREMISTE" (our handle on BC)

Terrific Inaugural Party!

After having attended some of the clubs in the Bay Area, we were pleased and excited to find such an intimate, friendly, sensuous party in San Francisco. The hosts made us feel welcome from the moment we arrived and they took the time to introduce us to other guests throughout the evening. It was a great mix of interesting, professional and very attractive people and we felt right at home and had a great time. We hope you will continue hosting your parties and look forward to attending them in the future. Sign us up for your November party! Thanks again for a terrific evening!

Great Party

We'll begin by saying "Thank You!" for a grand time at the inaugural "Decadence" party - but we want to go beyond that and say that we think you've really got something wonderful going. We've been looking, for a long time, for an upscale event where friendships can be made, conversations can be had, and where we felt comfortable with the group. The "Decadence" party hits all the nails square on the head: your venue, encompassing two elegant suites in a boutique SF hotel, was perfect. The view of the downtown skyline from the terrace was beautiful (although a little chilly!). The attendees seemed to be professional, very attractive, warm and friendly people. We enjoyed meeting everyone, and after only a little while, felt like we were comfortably among friends - and very sexy friends at that. We love the fact that you've kept the party to a reasonable size, and that you know many of the guests personally. That made the whole affair more intimate and a whole lot sexier for us. We also appreciated the fact that you took time to introduce us personally to many of your guests, and checked in with us frequently through the evening to make sure that we were comfortable and feeling included. You did a great job getting the place ready, and setting the mood. The ambiance was perfect for making new friends. We really enjoyed the warm sensual undercurrents that seemed to permeate the evening. As the evening wore on, these undercurrents got stronger and stronger, with very pleasant results for us. Thank you again.

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If you get a chance to go, leap at it!

We were fortunate enough to go to our first Decadence Party this past Saturday. We had heard so many great things about the hosts and the party that we had to see for ourselves.

The whole experience was fantastic. From the interview with Mrs. Host on the phone who was so friendly and warm to our actual arrival. We were greeted as if they had known us for years, and made us feel so welcome and so comfortable. The hosts are world class beautiful people, as such they attract the same type of people to their events.

They introduced us to everyone, and they were all incredibly nice, down to earth, upscale, sexy people. Great conversations, excellent interaction long before the fun begins. There is no better foreplay then the tantalizing of the mind by beautiful and sincere people, and with the people at this event you will get it in abundance.

Moving on to play... The location is very erotic; it is decorated with candles and such to create the perfect atmosphere. One that is very romantic, the kind that you dream you would do for the love of your life if only you had the time. They create a wonderland of romance and bliss for all to frolic in. It is wonderful! The atmosphere of play is one of total respect. If you are new to the lifestyle, I pray you let this be your first party, so that you can see how it is supposed to be, so that your first time is everything you both fantasized about. Play at your own level, feel respected, and have the best experience you could possibly have. If you are a veteran, then you will know immediately that this is very different. A true upscale, very classy event by comparison. It is a pure and natural party, no games, no clichës, just wonderful people that want to have a great time with other wonderful people.

You will look a long time, and attend many parties, but you will never find one as true to the beauty of the lifestyle as this one. If you get a chance to go, leap at it. It will leave you wishing it lasted forever.

BEN2TIA  

Great PartyTerrific Inaugural Party!

After having attended some of the clubs in the Bay Area, we were pleased and excited to find such an intimate, friendly, sensuous party in San Francisco. The hosts made us feel welcome from the moment we arrived and they took the time to introduce us to other guests throughout the evening. It was a great mix of interesting, professional and very attractive people and we felt right at home and had a great time.

We hope you will continue hosting your parties and look forward to attending them in the future. Sign us up for your next party! Thanks again for a terrific evening!

Great Party

We’ll begin by saying “Thank You!” for a grand time at the inaugural “Decadence” party - but we want to go beyond that and say that we think you’ve really got something wonderful going. We’ve been looking, for a long time, for an upscale event where friendships can be made, conversations can be had, and where we felt comfortable with the group. The “Decadence” party hits all the nails square on the head: your venue, encompassing two elegant suites in a boutique SF hotel, was perfect. The view of the downtown skyline from the terrace was beautiful (although a little chilly!). The attendees seemed to be professional, very attractive, warm and friendly people. We enjoyed meeting everyone, and after only a little while, felt like we were comfortably among friends - and very sexy friends at that.

We love the fact that you’ve kept the party to a reasonable size, and that you know many of the guests personally. That made the whole affair more intimate and a whole lot sexier for us. We also appreciated the fact that you took time to introduce us personally to many of your guests, and checked in with us frequently through the evening to make sure that we were comfortable and feeling included.

You did a great job getting the place ready, and setting the mood. The ambiance was perfect for making new friends. We really enjoyed the warm sensual undercurrents that seemed to permeate the evening. As the evening wore on, these undercurrents got stronger and stronger, with very pleasant results for us. Thank you again. We’re already looking forward to enjoying your next event.

Elegant & Erotic

We wanted to thank you both for one of the most elegant, sexiest, fun and erotic parties last Sat. night! You both did such a great job of planning and hosting, we got a chance to meet and get to connect with so many beautiful and sexy couples. The suites you reserved were perfect for a fun and playful environment and all enjoyed the sexy mood that was present. We had a wonderful time exploring and enjoying playing with another amazing couple. Your Decadence Party is definitely one that sexy couples will be wanting to check out and enjoy! We are really looking forward to attending again. You are both such a hot couple and so sexy too...